I fail to see the difference between Superman fighting Brainiac if he's dating Brainy and Superman fighting Sam Lane if he's dating Lois. Paternal figures can be antagonists too; if anything it adds more drama to the proceedings.
The Legion isn't exactly the height of popularity, and Kal's been a part of the team since their very first story. To me, they make Superman better and he makes them better in turn. Of course ideally a Superman show with a Legion focus (or a Legion show with a Superman focus) would be able to balance the characters well, as the original show did. Despite a heavy focus on Superman and indeed, on his relationship with Brainiac Five, there were still plenty of episodes devoted to Lightning Lad, Bouncing Boy, Triplicate Girl, etc.
Are you saying that having multiple exes makes you more likely to spy on people? Because listen: I can't think of a single reason why that'd be true. In fact I find the claim utterly ridiculous.
Consider though: in the hypothetical show we're discussing Superman probably only dates one person, maybe another relationship midway through that he realizes isn't healthy before getting together with Brainiac Five in monogamy. It's hardly like we're debating the ethics of a hypothetical show where Superman just goes around and promiscuously picks up different women and men every night to sleep with, just a show where he becomes romantically involved with a robot.
Disregarding both those points though, I think we've just got a difference of opinion. I don't want Superman, in the general sense, to have a "soulmate". I like the idea that he has a lot of exes, not because he sleeps around or anything but because dating is complicated and people's lives and ideals often converge and then part again. In my mind, Lana, Lori, Lisa, Cat, Luma, Lois, Diana, Maxima and yes, Brainy and any other male love interests who might hypothetically arise in the future, are all worth of being "the one" for Kal in different stories, or at least all worthy of being someone that Superman
thinks might be "the one" for him while they're dating. I hate the sense that everyone else is a name on a checklist Superman needs to reach to get to Lois, and that the checklist should be kept to a minimum. Lois isn't just Superman's love interest, she's a compelling character in her own right-
all of Superman's love interests over the years are, all of them can round out his supporting cast without being the one he kisses, and frankly I don't think that he needs to have a love interest at all. Lois gets pigeonholed in the love interest slot though in my opinion, and one reason I like having a focus on other potential paramours is because it creates a space where Lois doesn't have to fill that role. It hasn't historically always worked out that way. Sometimes if writers can't use Lois as "Superman's Girlfriend" or "Mrs. Superman" they just ignore her- but that's not the way it ought to be, and there's no reason she can't still be Lois Lane, Ace Reporter, if he's dating Cat Grant or Lisa Laselle or Querl Dox.
And, you know, there's no reason she can't do that while romantically involved with Superman either, and when she is involved, she usually does. I
like the Lois / Clark ship, I just don't like it exclusively. I want to make that clear.
Well, we're
all just fans expressing our thoughts and feelings of love for Superman.
I'm glad you'd like a Legion show regardless of pairing. I agree that making a good Superman or Legion show should be higher priority than shipping of all things in any case.
Finally, thank you for taking more care with your spacing, it helped me read your comment a lot more easily.