Originally Posted by
Dan Slott
But that's the point. That is "all" you're talking about. You're ignoring all of the stuff in groups you were in. In groups you did participate in. Places where truly horrible things were said about people that person worked with and for. And you were just one of the many bystanders who did not jump in and go, "Maybe that's too much." Since it was a collection of people you liked hanging out with-- and they were the ones acting horribly, you let it slide.
If there were posts where people were "simply stating" (a walk back from your previous "nice") and those posts were met with snark, I sure as hell didn't see them. I actually saw the person you're referring to be very frank, open, and accessible to people who were not insulting him or meeting him with multiple posts of online bile. You really do have a rose colored view of a lot of people who were being quite vicious with that person. It's frankly a little weird.
Flag on the play. Set the wayback machine:
Steve Wacker and I were arguing the case for people using real names instead of screen names on these boards. We were saying that people's views would hold more weight if they used their actual names-- and that anyone using a wacky screen name could be anyone-- that the freedom of anonymity was also the freedom to act without common courtesy-- that it made it too easy for people to say things that they'd never say to someone's face in the real world. And members here at CBR (yourself included) were making the case that screen names were no different from pen names (Samuel Clemens' "Mark Twain" name was brought up a couple of times) and that someone's views were just as valid if they used their real names as if they used their screen names.
And I made a grand total of 1 post - where I said that I had a secret to reveal, that you were actually a screen name that I came up with.
And that was patently absurd. You'd been on the Spider-Man boards before I ever jumped on. You'd been on other boards around the net. I would've had to have played an insane long game for any of that to be remotely true. It was ludicrous.
And some of the bat-shit-crazy people from one of the sites you liked to frequent ran with it. They were the ones that ran around the internet like deranged Paul Reveres. This wasn't some Machiavellian plot I'd hatched. It was 1 post that anyone with half a brain could've told was a joke. But this is the internet. And some of the same people who said that Brand New Day writers & staff should be punched in the face and that Joe Quesada should be lynched, those "kindly and not insulting anyone" people were the ones that went all loopy-- like everyone in the TWILIGHT ZONE episode "The Monsters Are Due on Maple Street".
I apologized for inadvertently providing any kind of catalyst for those horrible people. And I did my best to try to do what I could to fix it. I'm sorry that for some people-- common sense and simple logic didn't clear everything up (why would I have had an account on farming sites?!).
And thank you for the way you spoke up when those same people were treating Marvel creators and staffers in hostile, insulting, and threatening ways during those early days of OMD and BND. Oh wait. You didn't do that. Very few people on those sites did. And when those rare people did, they were talked down to-- and in some cases-- felt pressured to go off into separate/segregated virtual "club houses" in order to have their say. It was surreal. I hear complaints that some pros should act a certain way online. But rarely do I hear that certain subsections should act certain ways too when interacting with other people.