I always related to Superman through Clark in the sense Clark is what everyone else sees, but Superman is what is there just beneath the surface that everyone isn't seeing. All the girls who didn't see the great guy I was were like Lois Lane who just couldn't get past those glasses. All those guys in class with the looks and the skill- I'd outshine them all once I found that phone booth and they stopped seeing "Plain ol' Clark Kent".
I felt at points like I had some alien way of perceiving the world that no one else could share in the same way that Superboy/man couldn't really relate to even the Kents what his experiences were. There is no common frame of reference to describe "the sound bullets make when they strike invulnerable flesh, or what the wind feels like in your face when returning from outer space". And sometimes especially, as a teenager, you feel like no one else ever goes through the same things you do and you just can't find the words to explain it to them. And like the Superman I grew up reading the answer was never "I wish I could be Clark 24/7 and share the ordinary life", it was "I wish there other people who saw the world like I do that I could share this with: a Mon-El, a Krypto, some Legionairres ..."
And when my teen-aged self wasn't feeling sorry for himself I liked the idea of someone powerful who had no ulterior motives except to help and do good. Whatever name he went by Clark/Superman wasn't a corrupt politician, a bullying authority figure, or any of the other powerful guys I saw on the nightly news.