Self-absorbed was maybe one step too far though it was based on his just leaving the rescue because he was preoccupied wanting to know something.
Hoechlin starts out being the one who shows up and rescues Supergirl and who put Lex Luthor away. Then he gets taken out so Supergirl can be the star. To my knowledge, it's the first version of Superman who is not the main character of the story.
It's unfortunate in a way because every attempt to do that moves him far away from how people perceive what he should be. I actually thought "Superman Returns" had some guts and was willing to take some risks though it had many failings.The failings of the tv show Superman are independent of the failings of the movie Superman. Frankly I think it's much more prudent for DC to build a Superman that's representational of the best of the comics Superman and stop relying on vague "feelings" from the public. They need to start building a more concrete image of who Superman is rather than who he is being either general ideas or even worse stereotypes based on elements of his mythos. His character needs to step back from how generic he's become.
Well, I think the approach to MoS was hugely driven by the success of the Dark Knight movies and the idea that that approach is the only one that sells. So even the attempt to cast Superman in that mold was rather generic and not really thinking out how to make the character come alive again.People keep tossing this thing about how Superman was just Batman with flight and heat vision. Since the 60's Bruce has run a gauntlet of different characterizations and set ups. But that's because Bruce seems to be a dynamic character compared to the increasingly diluted and starched approached that DC has given to Superman. Where as Bruce's existence overtime has become people coming up to the plate to experiment and do exciting new things Superman has been people coming up to slowly whittle the character down to increasingly vague concepts. Postive, good, and country are all that seems to be left of a character that once expanded a great range of possibilities.
Probably more than any other comic character, people are locked into images of what he should be. To a large degree, attempting to break too much from that image doesn't change people's image of what he should be but just results in people deciding this or that rendition is simply a bad take on Superman. Whether the problem is insurmountable, I don't know. Certainly something that incorporates his best qualities and doesn't go out of it's way to go against them would be a good start. MoS actively goes against what I think most people think of as Superman.