I don't get the complaints on the grieving process. I thought him standing with the seasons changing was one of the best pieces of visual film-making in the entire film. It told me what I needed to know and emotionally impacted me in a matter of 30 seconds. That's good story-telling. That's what really impressed me with this film, was all the little moments that I FELT as a viewer. I don't recall being particularly connected much with the first film, but I was all sorts of swept up in the drama of this one.
And hammy performances? Come on now. It's a Spider-Man film. I can't see any complaints of Giamotti. Guy's a genius and totally steals the show for the 5 minutes of screen-time he has. I look forward to seeing more of him. Plus the entire ending with the kid had me welling up. That's my absolute favorite element to comic movies: the ability for them to inspire hope and bravery. It was like the Tiananem Square Jr. Loved it. I haven't even had a chance to give Cap 2 another spin yet (which I also loved), but ASM2 had so much to soak in that I want to get back to the theater ASAP. Plus I got to see it with the kid, and to have her grip my arm at the scary bits and cheer at the happy bits always is a wonderfully vicarious experience.