For me I would probably say Daredevil. Granted I may be a bit biased, but with the torch it always seemed a bit more antagonistic. ALmost like rivals... playing pranks on each other and the such. Besides, Torch will always seem closer to Thing and the FF than he will Spidey.
With Daredevil, it was almost like two loners hanging out. Neither had anyone else and they had each other's back when the going gets tough. With Torch? He's usually too busy saving the world or something. In the 60's and 70's they used to team up a bit... but from the 90's on the FF were generally marginalized and I can't think of any great team ups they had.
as for Wolverine? Spider-man SHOULD hate him. He's the opposite of everything that Spidey stands for... and like the DD/Punisher team ups they should spend half their time telling each other how everything they do is wrong and end up punching each other in the face.... then maybe having a beer. Wolverine should the guy who's useful to have in a fight... but he's not the friend you'd want to set up your cousin with.