That's a rather extreme comparison. Still, I kind of liked the "rescue and emergency response" angle that NXM started with. Whoever works at the school and moonlights as a rescue operative really SHOULDN'T have anything to do with X-Force style wetworks operations, and I think that's possible if you go back to the early 2000s model where the school is one small cast, and all the other books are slightly tangentially affiliated small casts.
Okay I just read your soliloquy and I have no idea how our positions are different. I'm advocating for the X-Men staying the senior graduates, and letting the younger students come and go and not worrying about their future.