Interestingly enough, Morrison's Clark was a good deal happier growing up, generally speaking. Lana and Pete were always there for him, he didn't get picked on, and from a young age Pa would encourage super deeds, if not out right instigate them himself. That Clark was also never shown to be conflicted over learning of his heritage. New 52's outsider nature didn't really seem to kick in till he was in the city.
Secret Origins isn't my first pick for a Superman story, but that Clark did have very clear and present issues with fitting in and feeling comfortable with himself growing up. When he learned he was a alien her didn't mourn the loss of these people he didn't know but rather he did mourn the facade of just being Ma and Pa's son. And Clark was actually so troubled by his situation on Earth that when three flying strangers who dress enough like him say they're from the future, he literally begs to go with them, and he says it's because he can't deal with not fitting in here anymore.