Yeah, you are definitely not comprehending what I said, so let me word it differently for you:
All the other Alpha heroes (Wonder Woman, Flash, Green Lantern, Aquaman, Captain America, Hulk, Thor, Iron Man, etc) in the Big Two have proven that they can go long - term without the use of a secret identity ... EXCEPT for Spider-Man, Batman, and Superman. Those three are the only Alphas who cannot survive long - term without a secret identity.
Anyone else in the Big Two who needs a secret identity to function isn't a true Alpha (anchors their own franchise successfully).
The secret identity trope has lost a tremendous amount of power, influence, and general appeal in the medium.