Some of my favorite stories have been ones where action kinda took a backseat to the characters themselves. Guess my feeling is that without well-developed characters, I don't get invested in the action that well.
I guess I'm also not a blood and guts kind of guy. I tried reading Old Man Logan once. That thing was a slog and devoid of entertainment for me (which I find odd, given that the movie was good). Same thing with Watchmen. Give me Spider-Man more any day where things have a nice balance between drama and fun. Who cares if watching Wolverine slaughter baddies by the dozen with all the blood has better artwork and layout. Watching Spidey have to escape from a robot controlled by J. Jonah Jameson (complete with Jameson's face for the robot's head) is a much more enjoyable story (IMHO)
I've found that the only violent character I've enjoyed reading is X-23 (and even that story is focused on her overcoming that). Some of those do get pretty rough, but I think when used well, it's in service of the story, not just for action sequences for their own sake.