I think that's where the disconnect lies. This is not done to make it easier for forum members to have these random chat discussions. It's being done to prevent the "us" and "them" mentality. What you're asking for is a special clubhouse where you and a select group can talk and what CBR is saying is that there are no more select groups. Just the community as a whole. Because when everyone sees themselves as part of the CBR community and NOT as a Rita or an Ultimate or a whatever then there's a tendency to self-moderate. A tendency to be a little bit of a better version of yourself.