!!!! You're dead to me!!!!
Nah, just kidding. I do love me some Richard Rider though, and utterly disagree with you that he's boring.
So, it seems to me that our wonderful Ms. Khan won't be showing up in Captain Marvel, even as an infant. The 90's is too far back for that, though perhaps Carol will save a young couple from Pakistan newly arrived in America?
And if Carol's been off world for so long no one even knows she exists, that means Kamala either can't be a uber-fan, or her debut is still a few years away post-Avengers 4.
My guess is she'll appear in Captain Marvel 2.....though I wouldn't rule out a cameo in Spidey 2 first, just to set the stage. It wouldn't even have to be a matter of Kamala being relocated to Queens, it could be the next academic decathlon or a school field trip or anything.
However it plays out, I'm sure they'll do great with the character and I'm looking forward to it!
Of course, Nova will be far better when he arrives.