Originally Posted by
Superlad93
I don't mean no harm, but can we talk about something? Can we talk about the prevalent complaint that Lois and Clark are written out of character because they decide to go along with what Jon wanted in MOS?
So, like, the issues a lot of people seem to have are as follows: 1) Lois and Clark are cool with having their son interact with someone who used to basically be an enemy 2) Lois and Clark are nuts for even entertaining the idea of their son going across the galaxy of all places with said used-to-be-evil dude. And 3) Jon's 10 he doesn't make the rules.
And I'd honestly be with everyone who cites these complaints if this wasn't the super heightened reality of the Superman world. Some may disagree, and still say it's even too extreme for that kind of world, and maybe that'd be true.......if I hadn't just spent two years reading Tomasi, Gleason, and Jurgens write this family. That may ring super false for some--and may in fact be the reason why they think it's mischaracterization, but I wanna just bring up a few things.
So in the interest of fairness, lets put the last two years of Lois and Clark bringing up Jon under the same microscope as MOS. So, for one, Lois and Clark are cool with Jon being best friends with and going on adventures with a 13 year old born killer. Yes, Damian is reformed, but even after that reformation he still killed Nobody's dad (doesn't help that he just killed Black Mask apparently). But more relevant to Jon, he goes by the motto of "better to ask forgiveness than permission." This mainly being in relation to sneaking out, and probably the most famous instance of Damian sneaking out was, well, when he got himself implied with a sword and died. But again, in relation to Jon, the first time Jon and Damian went on a solo adventure, Damian sneaks Jon out, and.....the promptly see a bunch of dead bodies and fight a murderer. Jon's 10, and when Lois found out that he did sneak out, he wasn't forbidden from ever putting on a cape again or seeing Damian. I think he was just grounded for a bit, if that. And to make matter worse, Damian had Jon actively hide the facts of their adventures from his parents. That means he's not talking about seeing a dead family with anyone but the person who is quite used to it.
Then there's the whole fact that Clark straight up took his kid into space to save a planet full of people, but ended up having to let him watch a whole race of people basically commit mass suicide. He's 10, and so far he's seen a dead family, and a whole dead race front row.
And what about Kathy and all the aliens of Hamilton that used to work for and believe in Manchester Black of their own free will? Like, no one remembers how Kathy made a child (Damian) internally bleed, and now she's allowed to be alone with Jon? What about how she and the others of Hamilton were party to the actual drugging, brain washing, and mental torture of Jon? Clark has a speech about earning back trust and all with the Hamilton squad, but he still lets his kid go back there mostly unsupervised shortly after. The only bit of supervision is Lois having Nobody keep tabs on him and text her. But that's all dependent on if Lois' phone is on, Nobody has the time, and Jon and Kathy aren't off in another universe. That's also a thing Jon does super regularly: goes to other universes for missions or just for fun, and the last time he went he literally made it so something dangerous followed him back, Boyzarro. And one time when Jon was mad at his parents for moving he literally jumped to another city (Gotham). He's not even old enough to drive anywhere in America, why is this cool?
For that matter, why would any set of responsible parents let their 10 year old son continue to be an underage superhero after all the logical psychological damage and very, very real risk of death associated with it (remember how his best friend already died at his age)? To make matters worse, Superman in this continuity is so acutely aware of these the psychological effects that he saw fit to co found Sanctuary, and he's very well aware of the risk of death and how indiscriminate it is even to someone like him. Letting Jon continue to be a superhero is inherently irresponsible of both Lois and Clark as parents. They're flat out irresponsible.
.......but, they're actually not, are they? The world is heightened, and the rules for the family and the world don't mirror our own 1 to 1. That's why it's not a big deal that Jon's best friend is a reformed once-dead killer, and his possible crush is a young lady that helped facilitate his capture, torture, drugging, and brain washing. That's why it's not that big of a deal that Jon passes the time by going to other dimensions or casually going to other states or cities to blow off steam.
So framed in that context, Lois saying that Jon's not going to space with his once-evil grandpa without parental guidance is down right sensible. There's also the fact that Clark would've had a way of staying in contact with them all the time, and likely using the Fortress tech with the communicator could've gotten their signal whenever and wherever. Lois even says "you can come pick us up." And keeping the communicator in the Fortress was just about the safest place on Earth. That place has proven it can keep Superman himself out. He had no way of knowing that something that much stronger than him would come down and wreck everything.
A lot of the safety net associated with Lois and Clark being cool with Jon being a hero and going to other Earths is the idea that Clark can get to his location with his considerable power, connections, and tech. And Lois flat out banks on that same sort of safety net in MOS too, right? She verbalizes it even. It just so happens that life, even Superman's, can be a bit of a b!tch, right?
Apologies for the length. Thoughts?