Reed, IMO, is orders of magnitude worse than Tony, because Tony himself admits to having flaws and sometimes getting it wrong.
Reed is always right (even when he turns out to be horribly wrong, at the end of the day), and if anyone else disagrees with him, including his wife and brother in law and best friend, it's because they are too stupid to keep up. He's like von Doom, with a better PR agent, because he skates every time.
Reed is sometimes written like a bastard child of the worst interpretations of Tony (overbearing elitist who wants to impose his own rules over the entire world, but not actually have the responsibility that comes with it, or apply those rules to himself) with the 'writers pet' that can sometimes crop up around Captain America (who can sometimes be written as never being wrong because he's got some sort of unassailable moral authority that comes with having 'America' in his name and being wrapped up in a flag, with the writer *telling* us why he's so awesome and respected instead of *showing* us him *being* awesome and earning respect).
I don't blame Reed for that, any more than I blame Tony for that, or Cap for that. All of them have been, at times, victims of some pretty terrible writing.
I'm particularly 'fond' of how Quesada, when asked how Reed was going to make up for *sending super-villain cape-killers authorized to use lethal force after his wife, brother-in-law and best friend, because they had a political disagreement about a law that hadn't been passed yet* and the reply was 'He'll cook her dinner or something.'
Just, wow.
"Also, I experimented on our son and he's in a coma. Here's a gift certificate for a mani-pedi at the day spa. We're all good, right?"