I personally agree that Thomas is probably better dead or destroyed. But I think it'll be a long time before someone uses him again - I mean, it was about 6 years between Flashpoint and this arc, so I'd expect another gap of that, by which time people will hopefully remember King Bats with less vitriol than they do now. Hopefully I'm right about this, and we don't have another Lincoln March situation, where they just kept using him, despite the fact that every arc he was in seemed to end with him dead.
I was feeling a bit salty with that arc title. I'm a bit late with my essay comparing Morrison, Snyder, and King's final issues, but a BIG element I'm going to be pulling out is that Morrison, for whatever reason, was pulling from very dark places for his final arc of Batman - his childhood experience of his parents' divorce, the changes DC was making to the universe with the n52 - and that really showed through in the work, to its detriment, I think. King, interestingly, is pulling from some of the same experiences - his father leaving his family particularly - but decides that the best thing to do is to hold his loved ones closer, stick to his vows, and find joy in that, rather than find "a hole in the world."
I think your point about Kathy and Selina in the two runs is actually REALLY key. Because for Morrison (and Snyder, importantly), Kathy, Talia, and Julia represent something Bruce can't have - and I think they argue that it's because Bruce is a child, lost in the hole, trapped by his vow. King, on the other hand, sees Selina as something that Bruce MUST grow up and seek. These romantic relationships are all revolving around the idea of maturity - as David Mazzucchelli said in the afterword to Batman Year One, Catwoman represents a maturity that the boys aren't ready for yet - but King is making the case that after 80 years, Bruce, and we as the fans, ARE ready.
And by God, I hope we are.
I really don't think the Thomas stuff is that big of a change going forward. Thomas's letter didn't make that big of a change after Flashpoint up until The Button, so I don't see how his character evolution/change will make that much of a difference going forward.
Oooh, if you could share which pages you think are King vs. Snyder in the Rebirth, I'd be very grateful! Another friend just sent me the page where Lucius is talking about Thomas, and that's SO interesting. King has said that he didn't plan to use Flashpoint Batman so much until after #50...but maybe he unconsciously had an idea even that early!
Great question!
For me, I think my favorite parts are Bruce, Chuck, and finally Selina in Porky's bar. Selina winking and then sitting down as the comic fades to black on whether or not Campbell can kick the football is so good. Because I believe he did. And Bruce and Selina will get back up again, forever. And even if they don't - this arc will be here for me, in my heart, just as #32 will be - "Bruce, say it again. But this time, poor boy, don't demand. Please. Just ask me."
Awesome picks!