Kitty was not wrong but it did not hurt to want to help a friend who had a hard time.
Havok is desperate this is obvious but at these times it is best to calm down and try to collect the separate pieces and start from there.
This will also teach Havok not to judge people as he did with Scott and how the Avengers act when they do not need you .
The fun part was him trying to convince Beast and Banshee's return (he seems to be in the same state as Warren during Uncanny's start with Bunn).