Then why can't he figure out how to be happy and batman at the same time? The argument that he needs the pain from his parents death as a motivation has always bothered me. Yes that might be why you start out as a hero, but 20 years in, I personally think he could figure out how much he is needed, and another reason to fight crime along with that. I mean he knows who killed his parents so.......
If he is smart enough to outthink the riddler, beat Darkseid, and pretty much any other character he comes in contact with, your telling me he can't figure THIS one out. Seems to me like a lame excuse to keep a status quo.
I know I am late to this, but I wanted the chaos of #50 to die down before asking this.