I've blamed many things as having an impact on the 2016 election: 3rd party voters, Cross Party voters, People who refused to vote (Including those believing their vote didn't matter), Russian disinformation spread by some on all political sides, voter suppression, Comey's Letter, the media's fucked up focus, and if NC's elections are anything to go by actual ballot box stuffing went unreported. I don't think anyone with any sense can blame any one thing (Including Bernie/His Campaign) for it, despite the fact that many people try. Does that absolve supporters of Bernie who chose not to vote because they felt slighted - No. Does that feeling excuse them acting like they are entitled to have others 'bow their heads' in 2020 - No. Nor does it excuse refusing to compromise on an unknown nominee more than a year ahead of the election just because it isn't Bernie.
If you aren't willing to have a mind at least that open, then you aren't worth the effort of conversation.
E: See this? This is exactly what I mean. If it comes down to the wire - The candidate is nominated and that's the reality. There is no better candidates for the job than the ones on the ballot, as ones not on the ballot Will Not Be Elected.
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