I'm not really wowed by his history, I never cared for his role in the family, and the best part of how he grew and changed was him leaving. So all that's left is the stuff he has in common with Spider-Man. That's just how I see him. I Don't hate him, though his fanbase can be a little too much, but I'm indifferent to him at best. Not all characters can resonate with all people. Sometimes you just find a widely popular character others love...kind of flat. It happens.