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What actions indicate that Jean and Logan had some kind of affair behind Scott's back or worse, Jean mindwiping Scott to keep an affair secret? I for one would love to know because that's a whole kind of awful level that Jean would never do to Scott. Jean married Scott because she loved him. Point blank, period. Apparently, she also loved Logan but she married the right man and during her marriage to Scott she was faithful and Logan never came between them. They kissed twice once when Jean had come back and again when Jean and Scott were dating. During Inferno Logan grabs her and kisses her and she blasts him away but let's be clear, Jean and Scott weren't in a relationship at that time. The second time they kissed was when she thought he was going to die, that doesn't make it right or better but it is what it is.
However, for the entirety of the 90's there was nothing, Jean and Scott were happy and committed and they raised a child together. Jean only had eyes for her husband. Morrison changed that. They kissed twice during Morrison's run. Once where they thought they were going to die (after Jean claims she doesn't remember anything happening, but Logan does) and again when Jean goes to Logan in a moment of weakness. But let's discuss said moment of weakness. Why did she search out Logan? bell do you remember why? Scott, her husband hadn't been intimate with her for 5 months and he was pulling away. He wouldn't talk to her either. bell, do you also remember her conversation with Logan? It was all about Scott. She felt lonely and neglected. Now, I'm not in anyway saying it excuses what she did but you act like she was like 'finally! let me rip my bodice and do you right here!' and that didn't happen.
Also, don't forget that Scott went to Emma to work out his issues and be a better husband. He knew he was being distant and he was trying to fix it. When Emma tried to go for a physical affair, he told her that it was Jean or nothing. I understand that you're very glad Emma "saved" Scott or whatever, but she manipulated a man and used her status as his "therapist" to engage in an affair. He was broken, confused and needed help and she used him and why did she do it? Initially it was all to get back at Jean. That's some petty b.s. right there. It wasn't until later that she realized that in the mix of her scheming she had actually fallen for Scott but what kind of woman, sleeps with another woman's husband just to get back at her? No kind of woman. Even when Jean learns of the telepathic shenanigans, she doesn't go after Scott, she attacks Emma, all of her rage is directed at her and not at Scott. She never tells him he's a horrible husband or how dare he hurt her, nothing. In fact, she goes in on Emma for taking advantage of him.
And yet despite all that mess, if she didn't love Scott, then why did she do what she did in HCT? Why did she push her husband past all of his guilt to accept Emma's invitation?
I don't know what books you read but I don't ever remember Jean not accepting Scott just as he was when they were together. The only thing she ever wanted from Scott was for him to open up more and she never even pressed him about that either. She supported Scott, supported his decisions and when he died and all the X-Men were convinced of it, she fought to seek him out along with Cable. She never gave up on him. If she didn't love him, like you're alluding to, then when he died why didn't she just run off with Logan?
I know you hate Jean for saying that she loved Logan but you seem to completely gloss over that as soon as she sensed where Black Bolt was, she *made* him apologize for getting her husband killed. If she didn't love Scott or care about him, why would she have done that? You must've read the annual so you'd know the entire issue she's actually there at Scott's grave talking to him. At the end she tells him that she wishes he were there with her. She never once says she wishes Logan were there. You took a single line about Logan and instantly hated her while ignoring that the entire issue is her talking to Scott.
I get that you don't like Jean because "reasons" but please don't make statements alluding that she was carrying on some long standing affair with Wolverine behind "poor" Scott's back. Also, don't forget that Scott knew about her attraction to Logan and (at least in the 90's Jim Lee run) he knew that they had kissed. Scott trusted Jean and by the time that they were married (did you forget that she proposed to him?), Scott was secure in his marriage as well.
But maybe I'm wrong. By all means bell, please show me "the things Jean and Logan did" or these "actions that indicate" that there was something going on behind the scenes.
I enjoy all three characters. I certainly don't hate Scott and I really like Emma. What gets me feeling some kinda way is when people make these weird assumptions that aren't true about any character all because they "hate" them. None of these characters are perfect, they're all flawed in some way and none of the acted particularly well during Morrison's run.
TL;DR I'm fine with people hating Jean Grey but hate her for the stuff she's actually done without making up more stuff to hate her for.