I remember both and actually being put off by the cat thing when it happened and when I bought it up back then elsewhere I was told I was over reacting and that I shouldn't worry and that it would work out. Well they were ultimately right and the scene did have a point. Which is amusing because some of the same people who didn't seem fazed by a gruesome death of a kitty cat raised holy hell when Bendis had Lois and Jon leave for space even as I reserved judgement. They immediately crusified Bendis and already decided preemptively his run was going to suck and that he's already ruined Superman " forever!"
I guarantee you if it was Tomasi or Jurgens who had shipped off the Super family to space and done the stuff Bendis had done so far the people on YouTube and elsewhere yelling the loudest would be quiet and even complimenting the bold new direction.
Thusly, if Bendis had started off MOS or Superman #1 with Jon barbequing a cat, there would have been a full scale riot, and had Bendis even teased Lois losing a pinky let alone a leg there would be videos and 10,000 word essay posts about how Bendis is a misogynist who secretly is a Marvel plant to destroy Superman, whom he obviously doesn't get.
I keep saying, it's not as much about WHAT is being done in the Superbooks, but about WHO is doing it thats causing such "outrage". Both the previous teams and the current writer put the Kent family in some kind of situation and teased things, and so far Jon hasn't accidently killed another family pet and Lois still is clearly shown to have all her limbs intact....so...yeah.