I think William Messner-Loebs actually had the best modern characterization of Diana, but that's controversial.
Anyway, you should check out the Steve Orlando issues if you haven't. They won't blow your mind, but they have interesting plots, good characterization, action, and always introduce cool concepts.
I would recommend Wonder Woman volume 5 issue #51, #73 and the Annual 4 (2020). He had plenty of other good stories if you are interested in more recommendations.
What criticisms are we talking about?