That anyone you're talking about is none other than Jean, an A-list X-men.
So, it's much better for logan to date outside of X-men pantheon.
I don't get what you are trying to say in the first paragraph, but yes he is a lot better dating outside of the X-Pool, there is already way too much romance in that place, is better for him to not get tangled on that.
"Wow. You made Spider-Man sad, congratulations. I stabbed The Hulk last week"
Wolverine, Venom Annual # 1 (2018)
Nobody does it better by Jeff Loveness