Originally Posted by
lancer
You see, I don't think this matches what he wrote. We didn't see hind nor hare of Phoenix until issue 120. All the marital problems are in place by then. As far as Jean not being a wife, IMO, Casey's first issue and the bedroom conversation in NXM 116 make it clear that Jean has been trying since he came back. That is 5 months. He has shut her out emotionally and physically for 5 months. I think pretty clear from the Logan Jean conversation in 117.
Hong Kong was in the annual, I believe set between 117 and 118. Again, the problems were all there before Phoenix. I suppose you could argue that Jean should have continued to try and try and try rather than leave with Xavier, That's not to the late 120s, though.
Before that, we had Jean asking him if he had slept with Emma in Hong Kong. I wouldn't imagine that no she kept me up all night would inspire much confidence. The scene ended with that. The one issue I had a bit of a problem with Jean was her pretty shutting Scott down. However, that conversation had nothing to do with their marriage. It was about the school going public
As I've said a bunch of times, Morrison just wouldn't give them any panel time together. That's how this thing lasted 40 issues. How can there be any resolution when the couple never speak. In my mind, 3 real conversations in 40 issues. The one in the bedroom. The one where Jean shut him down and her dying. The one about Hong Kong was very brief just like the one in the issue where Jean caught Scott and Emma. It was all Jean/Emma. Scott saying, read my mind, she does and he storms out of the mansion is not my idea of a real conversation. The death convo wasn't exactly lengthy either. But at least a few lines.
Obviously, Scott had been traumatized. Had sympathy for him in shutting Jean down. Until he started an affair with another. Yes, that was not his intent. Personally, I found it incredibly contrived plotting for him to go to Emma Frost, of all people, with his marital. That said, he let it turn into an affair. That is when my sympathy went out the window.
Bottom line, I don't see it as simple as Jean was not a wife anymore. He wouldn't let her be one. Again, I do think it can be reasonably argued that if she loved him as much as I always thought she did that she should not stop trying to get through to him. I don't find that as unfair criticism. And the kiss with Logan. That is on her no matter how long he shut her out. You want to be free to do that you separate or divorce. I've suggested that is how it should have been done IF you are determined to do Scemma. Jean and Scott separate early in the run. Slowly work toward Scott and Emma.
Neither party is completely innocent. However, my opinion on a kiss vs an ongoing psychic affair with a world class telepath remains the same as it's always been. That's why I give Scott the lion's share of the blame.