I get it. I really do. We are passionate about these characters and their well-being. It sucks when your favorite characters and concepts are being creatively mismanaged by writers and editors who just don't seem to understand them.
Trust me. I am a Hal Jordan fan. I watched DC fall over themselves screwing that character and everything that was awesome about him for over a DECADE.
I raged. I ranted. I made a complete ass of myself on multiple occasions for no good reason. I quit comics. Twice.
And, you know what I would say to that younger, angrier Bored at 2:00AM, veteran of the HEAT flame wars and unflagging champion of the "Hal Jordan got SCREWED!" Fanclub?
"Hey, man. Relax, Hal Jordan will be just fine. In a few years, Geoff Johns is going to come around, clean it all up and make Green Lantern the biggest franchise DC has. It'll even outsell Batman for a few minutes. And, a few years after that, Grant Morrison is going to take over the character and sprinkle his crazy dust all over the place."
So, I understand there's a lot about the DCU that many fans, including myself, don't like. You may absolutely hate it. It's OK. Just take a break and wait. In a few years, everything will probably be more to your liking and you'll have plenty of great stories to catch up on that you missed while you were away.
Here's what you shouldn't do, and I understand how hard it is, but don't let your passion and love for these characters curdle into hatred and venom. There's enough of that in the world already and just because a creator or editor has done something you don't care for isn't a good enough reason to make your life worse getting frustrated at it all and being unpleasant about it with other fans who feel differently than you do. It's simply not worth it.
Please keep in mind that I am not trying to be self-righteous or condescending here and if that's how this is coming off, that is not my intention whatsoever. Nor is this an invitation for anyone to start "tsk, tsking" any fan that is feeling hard-done by the current state of the DCU. I am just hoping to reach people who were like me so that they don't make the same mistakes I did.
Thanks for your time. Feel free to tell me how wrong I am as much as you want. I won't mind. I've dished out enough snark in my misspent youth that I can certainly handle whatever you want to sling my way. Feel free to vent and I'll try to be a sympathetic ear if I can.