But I do finally get, and am sympathetic to, why you want to argue the point so hard. You really love DC and think that the reasons that people think Marvel and DC are different and why some people believe Marvel is better just aren't applicable anymore and that, if people would just take the time to read both, they'd see that the two publishers are really more alike now than they are different.
To that I can only say that, as a fan of both and as a longtime reader of both, that they aren't alike. Nor should they be. Their value lies in their respective differences. DC
is absolutely filled with great characters and great stories but they just have a distinctly different flavor than the great characters and stories at Marvel.