Originally Posted by
hellacre
THIS. Extremely important. I think the reason that troupe is used...and it is an OUTDATED troupe...because many other franchises and stories reject that grounded thing and have gone with the it is okay to be different, have your own normal, soar if you can, don't change or repress yourself to fit in etc... it is a troupe used for the love interests. To give them some relevance. Because if you look at the heroes...really as you say they have tons of humane feelings and responses because they did not grow up in isolation. Most times Superman did what he did because HE wanted to do it. He never choose his mission, his compassion, his morals, his motivation because of one factor. To say he did not know what he wanted to do with his life until he saw someone else do it or he wouldn't be able to fulfill his purpose because of someone else...it dilutes him as an individual and a hero. You can be inspired sure but end of the day your passion, your mission, your purpose should never be on the condition of the person you romance. This is like saying a doctor, a nurse, a cop, a soldier, a teacher...they all will only do their jobs well as long as they dating x or married to y. This has nothing to do with how good you are at your job. It is myopic thinking and it does not reflect well on the characters at all. Diana's greatest retelling was by Perez because he did away with the old troupe that she came to our world to chase after someone she wanted to bed. Superman use to care for humans because he cared for us, connected to us , admired the spirit of ALL...not one. Superman ....a good one...has honor and integrity or at least he tries to. And it is not only Snyder that wanted to subvert this for this false humanizing. It was back with Donner. If we reflect back on what he did, it was again a selfish destructive thing because he was willing to upset the whole lives of all of humanity and history for his comfort and his bed. Superman Returns too, the decent moral , heroic guy was not him. I do not know if DC and WB think that women think this is romantic or somehow we love the idea of a powerful man dropping everything...even the lives of innocents to pander to us. He cannot live without us. His sanity is dependent on us. For me as a reader, as a human being, as a woman...that is the worse sort of troupe to play with. I could not admire a man that does that. I would not trust a hero that is capable of bailing on us when the world got a little tough and a little tough just means he loses one person. Juxtaposed against other humans and heroes in the DCU who lose many things, partners, children, whole families, homes, even their homeland and planets...DC has painted Superman in recent times as a weak minded person. But to them that is love and humanizing. That is an example of dysfunction. Not love. The greatest test of a hero is when he loses and goes through a baptism of fire and can show he does not give up. The man that loses everything but still can stand up for us and want to continue for us...that is a Superman. That is Wonder Woman. Our power couple have often lost things, put their lives on the line, lost each other...and yet still stay the course.
Snyder wanted to suggest we have to keep Superman happy via a personal relationship else he can't be heroic. DC also seems to suggest he is broken man if he is not happy or has the things that make him happy. I am not sure what this suggests other than they have a ticking time bomb on their hands. Not a hero. Back when DC used to do AU...they often put Superman in challenging situations that showed he could be placed in other scenarios and many times he would persevere because if you are that inspirational as a character...you would find your purpose. Diana too. Now, I am not sure what this rigid thinking they cannot be who they are unless they follow a certain route or have certain "core conceits" which to me is lazy. Perez and Azzarello has shown you can still have Diana be who she is despite not following Marston's path rigidly. It is about proper motivation and character development end of the day, not who they date or where they work.
I am glad Superman and Wonder Woman when as a couple is the opposite of this troupe Snyder wanted to use. They might waver, stumble even, fall but they will pick themselves up and never give up. Ultimately they learn their lessons. Important ones about life and love and enduring and legacy. And to achieve this you HAVE to be tested. You have to live events and come out of them to do so.