I agree with you completely. I simply used damsels because they tend to be more prevalent but, yeah, mansels are the same equally bitter cup of tea.
Edit - I also hate the notion that because Clark and Diana are "above the common people" they would be out of touch as a couple. By this sort of sorry logic, no philanthropist on Earth no matter how dedicated or kind-hearted could be a "good person" because they do not live a normal life. It would be like saying the late Princess Diana was aloof because she didn't work a nine to five job, and her inner circle similarily did not, so no matter how much good she did she still was not an "authentic" person. Give me a damn break.