Sorry, I wasn't referring to that kind of "safe space". I was just talking about a place you can feel comfortable to express your feelings of dissatisfaction without me always chiming in to pee in your proverbial punch bowl with my pesky contrarianism
Honestly, I think I've just completely misunderstood the purpose of these appreciation threads, because they mostly seem to be fans complaining, whereas I thought they were about celebrating the character. And that's my fault for making that assumption, not anyone else.
That said, I understand and respect your desire to vent and gripe. I think it's a healthy and normal way to release your frustrations, and I sincerely apologize if I've made you or anyone else feel like your feelings aren't valid. I just see so much pointless negativity all the time, I can't help myself but try to convince people that things might not be as bad as things appear. However, if that is coming off as patronizing, then I clearly need to step back and just let you guys vent, even if I think you might be getting upset over nothing. I had similar issues on the John Stewart Appreciation thread, so I largely removed myself from that thread because I didn't want to be that guy ruining everyone's time pointing out that some of their assumptions might be wrong. Again, that's my fault. No one else's.
Besides, I think we've all gone around this particular merry-go-round enough times by now that I'm clearly not going to convince you that making jokes at Hal's expense is no big deal, anymore than you're going to convince me that it is harmful for the character. We can just agree to disagree on this particular point and I'll stick to celebrating Hal Jordan from now on, rather than trying to correct anyone who I think is off-base about how DC is handling the character. I think we'll all be happier that way.