Wow, I've never read the run, but that sounds like there may have been some softening of her character. But I'll chalk this up to a personal headcanon—Emma was feeling overly smitten with Scott for a month or so, lol.
His character voices for both Scott and Emma were the worst they have ever been.
Cyclops told Magneto to "suck it" in Uncanny #500. Scott Summers does not tell people to "suck it".