I figured all of it was joking and joked back, but if the DC thing is true, I’ll need some direction. :P
Nope.
The key problem Lorna has with Havok is that their relationship is loaded with literal decades of Lorna depicted poorly as part of building him up. The toxicity is so deeply ingrained that BOTH times Marvel tried to force Lorna back into heavy involvement with Havok in the past 15 years (going into space, X-Men Blue) after a mere 5 years or so apart, Marvel immediately had Lorna’s story, opportunities, development all undone and thrown aside for his benefit. It’s not a few rare bad depictions. It’s a rampant recurring pattern, and every single writer who tries to force them as a couple without enough time apart and enough of Lorna given due respect away from him is guaranteed to repeat it. It’s not a challenge, it’s a hard fact.
It’s also infected treatment of Lorna around other men to some extent.
Meanwhile, Lorna has comparatively few real, consistent dynamics with any women. Her most notable female character connection is with Wanda, who she only had one issue with in the 616 in about 15 years. Nearly all problem cases she had depicted with other women are decades old. And if Marvel did have Lorna with Jean and screw it up, it’s a lot easier to rectify - vs the decades of established BS with Havok that people at Marvel have nostalgia goggles for despite how objectively bad it was.