Where is this list of black men in fiction who are missing their penises? It's one thing to complain about black people not being allowed to be as sexual as white characters but what you're talking about is an entirely different beast.
Cyborg had two main love interests pre-flashpoint and has a girlfriend (whom he was shown having sex with) post-flashpoint. Wanna try again?
The person I was responding to was complaining about black characters not being allowed to do what white characters typically do. I pointed out two instances of that in Gen:Lock.