I think the poll is closed, and I still feel very much like my first post in the thread. I still like Lois Lane as Clark's main love interest because she earned it. BUT I'm also fine with Clark having other romances when appropriate. I don't think Lois should be his only love forever. That's just not realistic, especially for someone like Superman. So, as long as it's well written, I'm ok with all that.
Was the red head woman Lana? So is it canon that Clark lost his virginity to Lana?