If I work my ass off to see a thing happen for decades, to make a kind of dream come true, and then when it actually does I continue to work to promote it and show support for it until I'm gone, while having people do the same in spaces I can't for me, would I be offended that people already in my circle are continuing my work in my name? If I weren't offended by it, wouldn't it be more problematic to have other people be on my behalf?