I'm still packing, so here goes:
I'm saying it's a movie, not an ethics class. He doesn't conform to one, he makes a choice and goes with it. There's some Golden Age "can do" goodness I'd like to see back in Superman movies again. That sort of "roll up your sleeves" mindset that was there then as well as in the Triangle Era (among others).
He thinks further ahead at that age? He just told Jonathan "You're not my real dad" out of anger. I'm not saying it's a choice, I'm saying it's not writing to character. Look, it's not that I don't know what they were going for, and the poetry of it - on paper - makes a lot of sense. What they were trying to do isn't rocket science, I could tell as it was happening. But when you inject who this is into things, it just doesn't work as well (at least for me).
Zod's death is a whole other animal. I hated it, but that's not a character-in-movie problem, that's a writers-with-no-clue problem. That's made into a big moment and we were promised that it meant something - Snyder (after the fact of MoS and facing the first wave of backlash) came out and said as much. Then, BvS consciously went back on that, rendering the "lesson" moot. I often tell people to look at "Nando V Movies" channel to see how MoS could have been handled better - and the way he does it would have made for a much more satisfying conclusion.
Imo, you know what the best Superman says? To hell with the preconditions. He tries to save them all, focusing on the 9 but trying to use powers or whatever from afar to stabilize the one long enough to get back. If he fails to save 1 or more, that's a character moment - possibly a strong one about "you can't save them all" but that's it.
Case in point:
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I'm a Post-Crisis fan who also loved the Pre-Crisis Superman. In fact, I enjoyed Morrison's initial Action arc but DC's B.S. image management made me hate the New52 apart from that. If they hadn't taken the good time to piss on the Superman I'd read since '91 I probably would have given it more of a chance. And now that the dust has settled, I plan to go back and read those issues, and I'm sure I'll find things to like there.
Exactly. That passion toward the people he truly cares about goes well to making my point about Pa, actually.
Ok, back to packing I go!