I agree with that. Reed is still the hero and the good guy. But he's selfish, he always acts thinking he knows what to do best. He lies to his wife constantly and keeps going behind her back to do stuff. Ben Grimm will always be on his conscience as he should be, because Reed screwed him out of a normal life, and Ben has to watch while Reed and Sue have children and raise them, knowing that would never happen for him.
I always think that Ben Grimm and Doctor Doom are parallel lines in relation to Reed. Dr. Doom hates Reed and blames him for stuff he didn't do, Ben Grimm loves Reed despite the fact that Reed is truly responsible for his fate and condition. And in a way, Dr. Doom is kind of like this incarnation of Reed's bad conscience in the way Jameson is for Peter Parker. Jameson hates Spider-Man irrationally accusing him of being a glory hound and so on, but deep down Spider-Man would have to admit that there was a time in his life that he was exactly like how Jameson constantly accuses of him being. Similar, Reed would have to admit, that it's true that his accident and arrogance did get someone scarred and mutilated and that he didn't exactly listen to Ben Grimm when he voiced misgivings about that rocket launch, the way he tried to warn Victor.
Personally as a reader, I tend to relate more to Doctor Doom than I do Reed. And I think that's true for a lot of people across the world. Doom is the poor guy from a minority who came from nothing became an immigrant and used his brilliance and cunning to make himself bigger and tougher than anyone and always backing his boast. Whereas Reed is the normal guy for whom everything worked out. He's brilliant, got a great career, fell in love with a nice girl, and he and she got the cool set of powers that didn't affect their ability to have kids.