I know what you mean. It’s a balance really. The movies posited the question and from that moment on it seemed as if it would be answered. The audiences I watched it with loved it. I got one of those spine tingling moments as we saw Mjolnir being lifted.
Personally, I am not a huge fan of the idea that Captain America can lift the hammer, but we have seen The Vision do it already, so that can is already open. What I did appreciate is that Thor remained worthy and acted as if it wasn’t his one anyway. It was fun that he preferred the one he suffered to create, and the innuendo of the size of Mjolnir is actually very appropriate to the myths.
I don’t have this ‘immersive experience’ at movies that some have, so I don’t really know what ‘taken out of the film’ feels like.