...I do think its a huge missed opportunity there hasn't been one alternate reality story in which they worked things out and they grew as a couple. I think that could be incredibly cool to see how they would end up growing up together, I mean if there can be alternate Jean and Wolverine pairings, why not Spidey and Cat?
Why not indeed. I know I'd pay good money to read a mini-series or even an ongoing which explores the pairing the way you described above. It seems like such an exploration would be interesting.
"So you've come to the end now alive but dead inside."