Originally Posted by
FUBAR007
Seanan is a she. (According to her website FAQ, Seanan is an archaic form of Janet.) And, yes, she is single but that in and of itself isn't meaningful.
Honestly, I think it's less that many of them are single and more that 1) they're all Gen-Xers or Millennials and 2) they all come out of the arty, hipster, far-lefty counter-culture. Stable suburbanites with kids and mortgages they ain't. Given their age bracket, they've grown up with divorce, rather than lifelong marriage, as the cultural norm, leaving them cynical about the idea of marriage. Given the subculture they live in, they see marriage and monogamy as, at best, old-fashioned and boring and, at worst, as archaic, obsolete, and repressive. Monogamy is for squares. Marriage is a form of patriarchal oppression. Adultery isn't wrong, but liberating. Polyamory without commitments is the right way to be. Etc., etc., etc.