Um... I'm not really sure what the idea or context is supposed to be supported in that clip. It's been a while since I've seen those shows. Is that supposed to be one of their earliest encounters for a comparison? Why did a single minute of not responding to his gloating upset Luthor, and what resolution did Superman make with his plain statement?
In Year One, Superman admits to entertaining the idea of a private conversation on working WITH (that word happens to be there specifically) the law, and he's cut off as he starts addressing the idea. He decides to go ahead with confronting Batman because it's actually what the people want and they all cheer him on. And he realizes there that Luthor has set him up, yeah. But entertaining the discussion of accountability/cooperation and the idea that "bad guys wear masks" as part of understanding how he views the back and forth, never ending battle for justice go deep into the character regardless of how far back they get explicitly said.
The idea that he'd pass on investigating Batman just to spite Luthor would probably happen under a writer like Priest, but there is a pretty solid backing to say the contrary.
Although Bruce is only smart to prepare for a fight, unfortunately being goaded into a fight and recognizing it doesn't actually stop Superman from fighting in many cases. It's a recurring point in the entire story, the character in a nutshell, and basically the whole genre. The difference with Clark is that as always he doesn't throw the first hit, or even the second hit. There was a pretty logical outcome years ago where he became a pacifist, but people just weren't trying to read that.
As of now we are on a road to Clark willingly giving up his secret identity and we'll see if it has to do with any of the issues raised in stories like this one.