Originally Posted by
Prof. Warren
That's not what's being said in this issue. Some people are grossly oversimplifying or exaggerating Jen's position.
She isn't saying that being attractive was "harder" than being ugly or savage. She says that there were negative aspects to the way she was perceived and regarded that Bruce was oblivious to. To say that the sexual harassment she endured was no big deal and that it didn't matter because she knew how to handle it is the kind of thing that men say to women all the time in order to diminish and belittle their suffering.
It seems like many of the complaints about this issue only confirm the points that Aaron is making.