Originally Posted by
Yoda
Ok, so what about stories like the recent 6th Dimension one, where he's looking back on his memories of his father as guidance and strength. Or I think it was Superman 4, where he does the same thing in the Phantom Zone with Ma and Pa. I supposed, yes, he worked it out for himself in that instance, but he's relying on experiences that he had with the Kents as opposed to some innate sense of right and wrong. So, going back to that well repeatedly is going to get old eventually just the same - "Every time he's in a jam there's some cornspun wisdom from the saintly dead Kent's to get him through it." But what about something like Hitman #34, where he's having a bad moment because he couldn't save someone? Or even the Metzler story in Action 1000 which highlight how he takes inspiration or strength from the people he helps. So really, it's the frequency that the trope is used that's the issue. Lazy writing.
This all was likely a reaction to the belief that he was perfect, good and wise on his own. The ineffable Boy Scout who never has a doubt or question in his mind.
All this said, I actually like Pa dead and Ma alive the best I think. I like the scenes like the 6th Dimension a lot, but if that happened every other arc, it'd get just as bad. I also like Martha getting to see him become the hero he is. I think having her as a backstop and initially the only one knowing his identity gives him an outlet for that. I don't necessarily mind them both being dead either as long as it's not deaths connected to him being Superman ala Morrison or now Johns.