I think you have a very narrow-minded view of my view.
I don't think most men feel represented, by Steve Trevor, because, since the 50s, he's been the comic equivalent of a Ken doll. Steve Trevor is not written with sufficient independence or forcefulness, like a
Wolverine, Batman or
Orion, for most little boys to want to be him, ..or for grown men to have wanted to be him, when they were little boys - even with his magic girlfriend, Wonder Woman.
I just don't know any men and, when I was a boy, never met any other boys, who wanted to be Steve Trevor for any time, longer, than it would take ..to be deflowered by Wonder Woman. Guys generally don't feel represented by Steve ..or want to be him, for more than a few hours, in a room with his girlfriend. Sorry, but, it's true.
As I've said before, I think the modern model for Steve Trevor should be
Willie Garvin, aide-de-camp and sublimely flirty companion of another comic action heroine, ..Modesty Blaise. Steve, while certainly having a strong attraction to Diana, should be a guy, whose skills, government access and character warrant her enlisting his aid, on her missions. As with Modesty and Willie, I think Wonder Woman should keep him around - enlist his aid, etc - because of what he can do, ..and NOT just because she's sweet on him. I also think, while sharing a special friendship with her, Steve should be one of a small circle of skilled friends and loyalists, male and female, who regularly join Diana on her adventures - ala, Doc Savage's Fabulous Five.
Historically, it's done no good to bring Willie up, because I can't get enough of our community to look him up or
read his Wiki. Same with the Fab Five...can't get anybody to
read the Wiki!
Anyway, our fellow postors
sa-aay they welcome independent, assertive men, who challenge Diana, or generally aren't too impressed, with her, being in the Wonder Woman family ..I believe them.