Yeah, don't take it to heart, some posters have been out of order.
You've stood your ground valiantly and I get where you're coming from, some posters have tried to push you to defend things that they've jumped to inaccurate assumptions on what you've been questioning.
We have to remember that we haven't had many X-folks voices heard in all of this, and Hickman has them all under his pen for now, Mr Sinister incarnate!.
A poster wrote some weeks ago, which I liked reading was that this a mutant story more than an X-Men story. I get the mutants wanting Krakoa, but the X-Men will want to get out and help humanity soon enough.
The X-Men will be given some diversity of character and dreams soon, under other writers.