I get what you're saying, but it's just rather puzzling that folks are totally cool with all the retcons and arbitrary repositioning, but characters going through an experimental phase is... taking it too far? I mean, would it really be that huge of a deal if Scott and Logan took turns screwing each other that one evening, realized they were hard zeroes on the Kinsey scale, called it a quits and went to a sports bar with Lorna and Ororo?
Having an entitled princess bully a closeted dudebro into stepping out of the closet at the last isn't quote the same as grown-ups quietly experimenting on their own time from the get-go, though.
On a humorous side note, it will never not be funny how some folks freaked out over Bendis allegedly never dropping any hints of Bobby's repressed sexual orientation. The kid acted like stealing a jeep and going on a bro date at the county fair was the awesomest thing ever.