I agree, and I think that a big part of that misconception comes from a lot of white people who hear the term and get defensive over it is the way it is framed. I just don’t see much benefit in a term that you know from the jump is going to create more hostility and resistance.
I think saying or stereotyping or racial profiling always made more sense and it’s easier for a big chunk of to see the problem and empathize with it.
Like not every white person is going to think like the two of us and take the time to “get it”