Originally Posted by
Agent Z
Steve knew Wonder Woman when he crashed on Themyscira. So him not knowing her as Wonder Woman or Diana Prince would mean never coming to the island. Even when she had the Diana Prince identity Diana never kept it from her loved ones.
Milohai was a god who was the new Amazon patron. Whether he knew Diana Prince or Wonder Woman was irrelevant.
Hell, you might as well say that she's putting Superman and Batman in danger if they know her as Wonder Woman.
Frankly, using protection of friends and family as less of a valid excuse to have secret identities and more of a sign of just how incompetent superheroes are at setting up a network to keep civilians they know safe.