Originally Posted by
Revolutionary_Jack
Immediately after he beat her, he told her cruelly to pick herself up, and then berated her, and then told her to participate in his evil scheme of siccing a robot on the fellow Avengers and in the day of his hearing he made her wear glasses to hide her bruise.
Those are all the actions of an abuser. Wearing big glasses to cover up bruises is a classic sign of a woman living with an abuser.
And the reason Pym never laid a hand on her again is because Janet divorced him then and there.
And well before that...Hank Pym was emotionally abusive to Janet, implying that she was dumb and stupid, accusing her of cheating on him and so on, and always implying how she would never measure up to Wifey#1 who died in USSR. He married Janet because she resembled his first wife. That's not a foundation for a healthy relationship.
Fans are in denial about how bad it really was. I mean I read that story out of curiosity and I was led to believe that this was a one-time thing and then I was shocked by the issue because Hank really was bad there.
I mean when Spidey accidentally hit MJ in the Clone Saga, he was immediately horrified by what he did and ran in shock and shame, keeping away from her. That's still pretty bad but at least we get a sense that Peter knows he did something unforgivable...whereas Hank Pym when he struck Janet, evinced no immediate remorse. He told her to pick herself up.
It's stagnant because people keep undoing the climax and point of that entire story. Namely that Hank Pym should quit being a superhero, go back to being a civilian scientist and get his life together. He never liked being a superhero, never wanted to be one, and wasn't the best at it. Let Scott Lang be Ant-Man, leave Janet alone to be in the Avengers where she would be happy, and have him go out and be happy. He can still be a civilian scientist and consultant and involved but that's about it.
That's the point of his biggest moment in Avengers #229 where he defeats the Masters of Evil:
Hank: "I did a pretty good job of screwing up my life recently. You just about finished the job for me! You used me, egghead...and you tried to make me a criminal! But you couldn't, you see. I've come to terms with myself in the past month. I know who I am, and who I'm not! I'm not Ant-Man anymore, I'm not Giant-Man...or Goliath...or Yellow-Jacket! I am Henry Pym! And it was Henry Pym who beat the Masters of Evil!
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That entire speech is Hank taking responsibility for his actions and accepting consequences for what he did, and even finding a measure of happiness and catharsis. It's his World of Cardboard moment.
If you keep trying to make Hank into a superhero, if you keep trying to emphasize him being a "founding Avenger" and all that you are basically undoing this part, which is meant to be his redemption. Which means reversing Hank to the point in his character when he was capable of slapping Janet. So that's why it's always brought up.