I hate the word "damaged", as much as I hate the word "broken". Nah, maybe more.
See, writers: characters are people, and people are "hurt". Things are "damaged" or "broken"; people are "hurt".
Goddammit.
Sometimes I wonder if people don't look into sensible speech for traumatised people when they deal with these subjects or what?
I'm not being whinny here; I'm just amazed that they keep describing characters in such terms when they're actually writing about people with these backgrounds.
Someone who has to deal with similar stuff may read these words, and think: "Oh, so I'm damaged." Christ.
I don't mean to sound hard or even criticise, just in case. But.... But...