I respect that. The only problem is you have to do some mental gymnastics and insert some head cannon to make it work. Not meant as an insult. Our job isn't to explain away a story. Its the author's job to tell a story. Tini had 6 issues to make her case, but chose to tell us about what Rogue went through instead of showing us. That's lazy and kinda cheap in terms of storytelling. A top of that, we have to trust and hope for an addendum for everything to be worthwhile.
Your harbor joke was very... humorous. Bravo. I chuckled.